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Monday, January 2, 2012
Why Do I Always Attract Crazy Men?
By How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams.com posted on yourtango.com
The question is, why do some women always attract the crazy men? The answer is you.
Every woman is working with the same pool of men. Say there are four billion men on Planet Earth. This is the pool of men that you have to work with. In this pool, there are going to be gentlemen, pimps, players, hustlers, and psychos. But, it’s the same pool of men. It’s not like the crazy men are coming from outside this pool. The question is, why do some women always attract the crazy men? The answer is you. You can either repel or invite these men into your life. The only reason you attract crazy men is because you talk to them. Like our FaceBook Page
Men look for holes in women’s armor. If you have a weakness, we will find it. In fact, it’s our innate nature. When you spill water, it will find and drip down into every crack and crevice. Men who are attracted to you are much like water. Women who have a solid foundation are less likely to attract crazy men, because there are very few holes in their armor through which the water can enter. With these women, men have to search very hard to find holes. Most will tire themselves out and set out for the easier prey, the same way lions hunt the weakest, not the strongest, of the prey.
There are women who are fun to be with but don’t seem to have holes in their armor. Most men are too afraid to approach these women on a physical level because they can’t find holes to enter. To pierce the armor of these women, the man must have legitimate intentions. These women are less likely to attract crazy men. But, if you are a very open woman and will listen to any conversation, no matter how weird, then you are inviting these crazy men into your life.
In general, some men love easy prey and less work. Easy prey is much easier to sleep with, and usually open to all kinds of experiences. The key women need to know is when to let loose, and when to hold back. It’s okay to be freaky, but remember that we love, and marry, the women whose freakiness is subtle, not obvious. We love to sleep with and look at the women who are obviously freaky, but 9.9 times out of 10, we don’t want to marry them.
Always remember, though, to be courteous, and never judge a book by its cover. There is a difference between a legitimate prospect showing persistent interest in you and a crazy stalker. How can you tell? Well, if a man shows up at your house, and you did not give him your address, he is the latter. If you allow a man to spend the night on your couch and you wake up in the middle of the night with him staring you in the face, he is crazy. And if you continue to allow him to sleep on the couch for any reason, you are also crazy.
If you find yourself asking why you keep attracting crazy men, keep in mind that not everyone accepts these men and their weird ideas or conversations into their lives. The solution is to close up some of the holes in your armor. Set yourself a set of standards to follow, and stick with them. The question is, why would you listen to these men who end up being crazy? What are you curious about? What are you searching for?
Relationship Coach Simon S.
The One Problem With Being His F%@K Buddy
By How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams.com posted on yourtango.com
"How in the hell did this happen when all I wanted was sex?" You have this one hormone to thank.
Well first let's define F%&! Buddy. According to Urbandictionary.com definition numero 6. (The explanation our relationship coaches liked most) breaks it down pretty clear: F%@K Buddy: All the benefits of having a relationship minus the bullshit like acting interested in Every Word He Says, trying to sleep through mega-hertz snores, feeling like shit when he can't use a calendar to remember your birthday, and being nice about it when he doesn't make you come.
"So are things getting serious with Luis?"
"Nope - we skip the serious and go for the fuck. We're fuck buddies."
This type of relationship seems to be the ideal situation for most single, hard working career focused women and we find nothing wrong with this if you are 100% aware of what you are getting into and can keep your feelings in check. HOWEVER...more often than not feelings sneak up on people in these type of relationships and once the sex act is over it can leave the man and especially the woman feeling like there is something missing. Now if un-attached dick is the fix you truly want then there are plenty of pickings out there to choose from but you must ask yourself some very honest questions. Why do I want sex without love, and committment? Is it because I want to fulfill my sexual needs or is it because I am tired of being hurt by men and this is a sure fire way to not let them in....no pun intended. Well, maybe it is.
The act of sex is very bonding whether you realize this or not. It is not just about the exchange of bodily fluids but there is also an exchange of energy as well. Mix this with scientific data that supports how hormones are produced during sex that creates bonds and you are quite certain to have a recipe for emotional attachment mainly on the woman's part. This is why you will hear alot of women say "Why can't I leave him alone when I know he's no good for me?"
Here's what our relationship coaches dug up. According to the following article on LiveScience.com "In women, oxytocin is released. It's a chemical that makes women want to nurture their young and stay close. Men get a huge jolt of testosterone, which suppresses oxytocin, and that's nature's way of saying, 'Leave the nest and go sire offspring somewhere else.' So when women think they can have sex and walk away just like guys do, they're having to suppress thousands of years of evolution that tells them to cuddle."
Now we know what some of you ladies are going to say, which is it that it happens to guys as well. Yes you are correct, but with men it is not as hormonal and has more to do with their attraction, lust and how you make them feel. Where as with women there is an invisible bond that is being created. If you are having amazing sex with your F%@K Buddy over and over and over again you are sure to sing the blues once he finds his ideal mate and stops seeing you.
Now this unique relationship will be all fine with you until your F%@K Buddy meets The Woman Of His Dreams. (HowToGetTheWomanOfYourDreams.com launching soon!) So without judgement we understand the need and desire for F%@K Buddies but we want to educate you and help you understand that these situations do not always have the most positive outcomes. Someone typically gets their feelings hurt and is left with a broken heart and they will usually ask themselves "How in the hell did this happen to me when all I wanted was just sex?" You have the oxytocin to thank for this. Hopefully this article will help you out and for those who are looking into a F%@K Buddy partnership...you've been warned.
12 New Year's Resolutions Every Couple Should Make
By Meghan Beresford posted on YourTango.com
Making New Year's resolutions as a couple is a sure way to help your relationship rock in 2012.
New Year's resolutions tend to get a bad rap for being, well, fruitless. But making resolutions with a partner can help you stick to your promises and can also strengthen your relationship. This list of resolutions-for-two will help you ring the New Year in right, and keep your relationship rockin' all year long.
1) Do "Good Things" together (and not just around the holidays). Everyone feels generous around the holidays, and in December, soup kitchens get so many volunteers that they have to turn helpers away. These organizations need volunteers desperately at other times of the year, so you and your sweetie will make a huge impact if you skip the Christmas day goodness and volunteer year-round instead. If you're a Christmas lover, do your good deeds on the 25th of each month. It's the gift that keeps on giving!
2) Eat mindfully. When you're coupled, it's easy to cozy up on the couch and shovel down Chinese food while watching movies. Not only does this habit pack on the pounds, but it skips the fun and intimacy that can come with preparing and sharing food, too. Choose healthy recipes, and make your date nights special by cooking and eating together. Better than an overpriced restaurant any day! 11 Romantic Ways To Lose Weight As A Couple
3) Sweat together. If you're part of a tubby tandem and serious about ditching extra pounds, enlist your partner as a workout buddy. If you're not overweight, exercising with your partner is still a great way to improve your overall health. And everyone knows that the rosy cheeks and heavy breathing exercise brings reminds us of other things that involve rosy cheeks and heavy breathing. Speaking of which...
4) Make sexytime a priority. When we're busy, sex can get lost in the shuffle, but it's too good for your relationship, your health, and your mood to skip. Make time to reconnect with your partner in the sack by scheduling a weekend "staycation." If the sex has become lackluster, put some energy into figuring out how to make it exciting again. It might be a new position, a new toy, or just a straight-up change of venue (kitchen, anyone?).
5) Stop squabbling. If you have a serious beef with your partner, it's important to bring it up, but try to avoid petty arguments and insults. One nitpicky fight isn't a big deal, but over time, small backbiting comments can erode the foundation of your relationship. Pick your battles. When you sense a fight on the horizon, try to calm yourself momentarily and ask "Is this worth disturbing the peace for?" Don't Let The Toilet Seat Ruin Your Relationship
6) Strive for emotional honesty. Even the bluntest among us has avoided explaining feelings to a lover at one time or another. It can be hard to share with your partner (especially if you're experiencing a thorny, irrational emotion like jealousy) but it's important that you keep your mate in the loop so that he can act appropriately. Saying "I feel" instead of "you made me feel" will help you and your partner stay focused on resolving the negative emotions without it turning into a blamefest.
7) Nuke multitasking. When you're spending time with your sweet, banish buzzes, bleeps and chirps from your computer and phone. Don't scroll through your texts while your partner is talking to you, or IM a friend while you're supposed to be planning dinner. You may think you can do two things at once, but when you do, you're sending your partner the message that they're not worth your full attention. If you both have things you must do on your phone or computer, set a block of time aside to accomplish the tasks, and then move on with your evening (and don't even think of counting your tech time together as a 'date'!). Is Multitasking Destroying Relationships?
8) Treat your partner as well as you treat your friends. It's easy to take your romantic partner for granted, and sometimes we don't treat our lovers as well as we should. Like family, we assume that they're in it for the long haul and when we're stressed, our romantic relationships that take extra abuse. Ask yourself if you say or do things to your partner that you wouldn't do to your best friend, and if you discover that you do, adjust your behavior accordingly. And, remember, it takes practice to change a habit; don't give up if you don't change overnight.
9) Listen. Don't nod automatically as he talks. Don't wait for your turn to speak. Don't do the dishes while he tells you about his day. Sit down, look him in the eye, pay attention to what he says, and ask follow-up questions. This is one of the best things you can do for your relationship. Active listening is a skill that has to be honed with time and effort, but it's incredibly important. Work at it.
10) Criticize less than you praise. When you spend a lot of time with someone, it becomes easy to overlook the things that are great about them. Instead of dwelling on his bad habits, remind yourself of the reasons you fell for him in the first place. Then remind him! Couples who have been together for a long time tend to forget to compliment one another. Try to dish out three compliments for every criticism, and don't be shocked if he mirrors your actions. Shared appreciation breeds kindness and consideration, and what couple couldn't use more of that?
11) Break a bad habit together. If you and your man share a habit that's less-than-great for you, help one another break it instead of encouraging the behavior within your relationship. Instead of nudging one another outside for smoke breaks, make a pact to limit yourselves to a certain number of cigarettes a day. If you drink too much together, make a two-drink rule and try to stick to it.
12) Play! One of the worst things about being an adult is the total lack of juice boxes, naptime and recess. (What's up with that?) Thankfully, the dullness of the workday world doesn't have to extend to your personal life. Infuse your partnership with a sense of play. Have pillow fights, talk in funny voices, and draw mustaches on the models in your ladymags. Do something creative together... take a guitar class, throw pottery, or learn to roll sushi. Whatever. Stepping outside of your routine can bring you and your partner closer, and it'll ensure that things never get boring between you. Tips For A Great New Year's Eve
Here's to a Happy New Year... and to your relationship growing stronger than ever in 2012!
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Gisele Bündchen shows off her supermodel body for lingerie campaign
By Maysa Rawi
Last updated at 7:14 PM on 16th December 2011
Earlier this month, she was spotted at her local park playing with her son and stepson on the swings.
But Gisele Bündchen is no ordinary mum -and these are just some of the pictures to prove it.
The supermodel showed off her flawless body in the tenth anniversary campaign for South Korean lingerie brand Fidelia.
Model looks: Gisele Bündchen is the star of the Fidelia campaign, a lingerie brand in South Korea
Posing in a stunning house in Bel Air, Los Angeles, Gisele, 31, showcased the lingerie wearing stockings and high heels.
It's been a busy period for the world's highest-paid model.
She has just launched a third fashion line for C&A, and is tipped to become the first billionaire supermodel.
The mother proves why she is the highest paid model in the world
Gisele and her New England Patriots star husband Tom Brady are came out top in this year's Forbes magazine richest celebrity couples list.
The catwalk beauty raked in £27million in the past year, while Tom earned £18million, making their combined annual earnings £45million.
Last month, a blog, which tracked the stock of every publicly trading company Gisele has represented since 2007 found that its 'Gisele Bundchen Index' dramatically outperforms the Dow Jones.
Money bags: The catwalk beauty raked in £27million in the past year
The model is also the star of Versace's new SS12 campaign.
Gisele was shot in the California desert by photographers Mert Alas and Marcus Piggot.
Sporting, sky-high heels, a white bandeau top and pencil skirt embellished with gold studs, Gisele proved tans - and the 1990's - are well and truly back in style.
Gisele was shot in the California desert by photographers Mert Alas and Marcus Piggot for Versace's Spring Summer 2012 campaign
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Victoria's Secret pledges to investigate claims that its lingerie was made from cotton picked by 'abused child slaves'
Last updated at 8:55 PM on 16th December 2011
Victoria's Secret has responded to allegations that child labour was used in the production of its underwear line.
An investigation by Bloomberg reported that children as young as ten had been working in the Burkina Faso cotton fields that supply fibres to factories used by the lingerie giant.
In a statement today Victoria's Secret parent company Limited Brands Inc pledged to investigate the claims.
Clarisse Kambire, 13, holds a sack used for collecting fair trade organic cotton in Burkina Faso, the kind used to make Victoria's Secret underwear
Tammy Roberts Myers, Limited Brands Inc's vice president of external communications, said: '[The allegations] describe behaviour contrary to our company's values and the code of labour and sourcing standards we require all of our suppliers to meet.
'Our standards specifically prohibit child labour. We are vigorously engaging with stakeholders to fully investigate this matter.'
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Bloomberg reporters spent several weeks in the West African land-locked country talking to impoverished children who have not only been working for free but have suffered gross mistreatment at the hands of their employers and families.
One child spoke of being whipped and denied food by the farmer for whom she works and another described the cousin who punished her for trying to sneak to school instead of going to work.
More than just cotton panties: A Victoria's Secret advertisment
The accusations of child labour echo a 1996 scandal involving Nike. Even 16 years later, the sportswear brand is suffering the fallout, so Victoria's Secret will surely move swiftly to resolve this issue.
Reactions among bloggers and fashion enthusiasts are divided though.
Many are frustrated and saddened by the news that children are still exploited at the hands of organisations serving large Third World corporations.
'Very immoral of VS', reads one comment on MailOnline's original piece.
But others are quick to defend the underwear brand opting to believe that Victoria's Secret chiefs were unaware of the brutal conditions and youth of the workforce.
Some even go so far as dismiss the claims as par for the course:
'Educate yourself folks. This is nothing new. The exploitation of children is widespread. And it is all done to benefit you, the consumer. Happy holidays, everyone..'
In 2009 Victoria's Secret launched their Valentine collection made from what was celebrated as 'fair trade' and organic cotton from Burkina Faso.
Burkina Faso, where child labour is known to be endemic, recently ranked 181st out of 187 countries in the 2011 United Nations Human Development Index.
In a description about the collection, this slogan appeared: 'Good for women. Good for the children who depend on them.'
It's no surprise that in the wake of these accusations reps are keen to investigate the claims and clear the lingerie goliath's name.
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